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Who We Are |
For over twenty years, Another Way has operated a community center in Montpelier, Vermont that offers peer support, advocacy, resources, and crisis response to psychiatric survivors and people at risk of psychiatric intervention. Our homelike atmosphere is a place for people to relax and connect with others, live in community, share meals, attend support gatherings and educational workshops, create art and music, garden, build support networks, and access phones, computers, and other vital resources. Another Way tries to literally provide “another way” of finding one's truth and living well. Another Way is a peer-run organization that receives most of its funding from the Department of Mental Health, though we also run important initiatives with small grants from other sources. Additionally, we recently collaborated with our local food co-op and Transition Town Montpelier to raise money for healthy food and transform our backyard into a permaculture garden where we grow apples and berries, herbs and tea, produce for our meals, and have earthen benches and rock gardens for relaxation. At Another Way, relationship is our prime service. We consider peer support an informal process - not something "given" from staff to non-staff, but rather an expectation amongst everyone who visits our space. We have lots and lots of conversations. People get involved in one another's lives in meaningful and often lasting ways, and there are as many ways of support as there are needs and personalities. There is not a context of "mental health" at Another Way, though we do speak of the place as being "for psychiatric survivors." People are not working out "mental health issues," but rather being in relationship with one another, using resources, relaxing, creating art and sharing meals, challenging one another to think in new ways, and giving and receiving wisdom. This is a crucial distinction between Another Way and traditional service providers. In traditional mental health services, there is the implication that something is "wrong" with users (mental illness) and that "help" should be provided to them (treatment). While that context may be useful for some individuals in some ways, we do not start with the assumption that anything is "wrong" with people at our center, and people are free to act how they act without threat of being labeled, denigrated, or prescribed an intervention. However, if someone is acting in ways that are difficult for others, a conversation happens and feedback is given. There is an overarching context of creating a safe, supportive, warm, creative, and useful space here, and it is within this context that these conversations happen. This process looks different depending on who is giving and receiving the feedback, though we dialogue often about how to communicate in honest and helpful ways. It's this relational dynamic that often makes peer support different from traditional mental health services. The focus is not on trying to get individuals to manage their symptoms or set goals so they can have better lives, it's on trying to have good relationships so we can have better lives. We believe this context creates stronger communities, encourages personal responsibility, and allows genuine opportunities to build trust and take risks. Because experiences commonly called mental illness and their subsequent treatment by others generally leads to isolation and alienation, we believe the ideal of community can be a vital part of health for folks with psychiatric diagnoses (as it is with others, too). Too often the expectation by treatment providers has been for people with psychiatric diagnoses to fully integrate into their surrounding communities as-is, as opposed to working with communities to integrate people with psychiatric diagnoses as-is. While we certainly recognize that belonging to mainstream society has its benefits, we also believe that having spaces where psychiatric survivors can work together on their own terms can strengthen one's sense of self, feeling of belonging and overall purpose, as well as create larger social change. For these reasons, we have seen Another Way break the cycles of hospitalization and homelessness for some individuals - all without a treatment plan, goal-setting programs, or direct approaches to managing symptoms. Indeed, becoming a part of a community naturally challenges an individual to grow and to adapt, to reflect on patterns of behavior that are not working, and to have opportunities to try new ways of being that are respected by friends, all of which parallels so-called recovery from mental illness. Additionally, joining together with peers of similar experiences creates opportunities for advocacy, especially if the understanding amongst one another is that oppression exists and that individuals operate within larger contexts, some of which are operated by material entities that can be challenged. Crucial to the creation of community is a shared understanding of personal boundaries. Traditional mental health services erect strong boundaries between staff and patients. Patients are ill; staff are experts on the illness. Personal disclosure of certain life experiences by staff - one's own problems, trauma or psychiatric history, even interests - is strongly discouraged or outlawed, as it is seen to negatively influence the patient's recovery by unnecessarily influencing his or her decision-making, by sending mixed messages, or by overwhelming him or her mentally and emotionally. These boundaries are put forth to "protect the patient." However, such boundaries often have the adverse effect of reinforcing to a person that he or she is "the sick one" and part of the "other group" and is incapable of handling stress or negotiating relationships. Besides being paternalistic, this approach essentially creates the opposite of community, as it disallows genuine connection between people because it segregates folks into two types - those who are expected to communicate openly and realistically about all the troubles of their lives, and those who are expected to stay quiet about such matters, or in some silly situations, talk about them in the third person. Another Way is built on a different understanding of boundaries. Most staff persons also use Another Way as a resource center, and certainly staff and users have relationships that extend well beyond our community center. There are few top-down policies that curtail personalities - for instance, there is no dress code beyond wearing some kind of clothes to cover the body, and no rule about sharing a beer after work among staff and users. Issues such as excessive swearing are naturally curtailed by community norms, and people - whether paid or not - are free to be as open as they like about their lives. Of course, ethical conflicts do not dissipate just because there is greater liberty: problems do arise about relations. The point is, we address them as a community, not because of policy. This approach encourages self-reflective learning and deepens moral responsibilities. Yet it also relies on strong leadership, and at the risk of sounding polemical: a striving for the common good. A few other notes about our philosophy: * Though we are skeptical of biopsychiatric propaganda put forth by pharmaceutical companies and many traditional providers, we are pro-choice regarding medication usage * We recognize that the vast majority of people with major psychiatric diagnoses are survivors of severe trauma, which is often a causal factor in so-called mental illness and should be acknowledged and addressed as such * Our approach is worthwhile and good for many people, but also has limitations and is certainly not a cure-all Finally, it is important to mention that a spirit of volunteerism and giving permeates our culture. While Another Way has business hours, people care for one another long after we close. People stay with each other during crisis, encourage one another, give rides to one another, offer assistance in hard times, cook meals for each other, stand up for each other, and so on. Another Way has served as a hub for networking to meet not just peers, but comrades who are there for one another when needed. |